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An Almost Weekend

This evening feels
Like a weekend night
Cars afloat heading home
Almost weekend, but not quite so

No work tomorrow
Don't have to fight the traffic
Gonna do my chores
Almost weekend, but not quite so

Friday will come
One more to go
Then there's Saturday
Almost weekend, but not quite so

Sat n Sun oh no fun
Sat for duty as mother
Sun for duty as daughter
Almost weekend, but not quite so

In a blink of an eye
Sunday will be gone
Then Monday will come
No longer weekend, so I just have to let go

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